I think for me, one of the biggest challenges are not knowing how to tell if a girl is actually interested in the first place.
I mean, that’s a complaint by many men, but I’m autistic, so I don’t necessarily pick up on direct hints much less subtle, flirty ones.
Well, to be honest, I don’t know if I’ve ever gotten direct hints…
If you see my point….
I don’t really flirt either. Unless there’s a lot of innuendo, I don’t see the difference between flirting and friendly.
They seem exactly the same to me.
It’s a wonder I managed to get married, but my ex-wife did actually come for me directly, so there’s that.
That was before I knew I was autistic but I don’t think that had we known I was autistic that it would have made a lot of difference.
Someday, perhaps, I will find someone, but it seems unlikely.
I don’t quite understand “come for me directly.” Please enlighten me.
She pursued me, that’s the only reason I picked up on it.