accident

When Will You Heal?

August 23, 2026
Ever since my near-fatal car accident, I am regularly asked, especially at work, some variation of “how long until you’re back to 100%?” Well, honestly, I may never be 100% again. Some of the injuries are taking a very very long time to heal, some others will only heal if I get additional surgeries, and

Overwhelmed, Overstimulated, Over-everything

August 6, 2026
I confess, I’m having a rough time. I was talking with my men’s coach and I was rather caught off guard when he said, “of course you’re feeling what you feel and you’re making all these bad decisions, it makes perfect sense”. It didn’t make sense to me, because I was so mentally tied up

The Accident – Part Two

July 22, 2026
As I’ve mentioned before in the post titled The Accident, I was in a near-fatal car accident at the literal beginning of the year, well, five hours into it anyway. One of the things I was “gifted” with from the drunk driver, was a colostomy bag when they had removed six inches of my colon

The Accident

July 10, 2026
On January 1st, a little after 5am, a drunk driver ran a red light going over 50mph and hit my passenger side as I was on my way to work. The next 4 days were filled with unimaginable pain and surgeries and I nearly died a couple times. God kept saying, “not today”. I won’t